Why women are needy

Women are needy because it's what makes them happy. Being needy is not as bad as it seems. Only if it's very undesirable for her partner it can be a problem. Otherwise, being needy makes women happy.

Women crave affection. If your woman is too needy you should be happy, and you should start worrying if she becomes more distant.

Women love to be emotional, neediness creates in a woman a feeling of connection, affection and intimacy. That's why she wants attention, wants to spend time with her man and needs him.

Being needy might scare some men, but it's not as bad as it seems. Immature men would feel the lack of control with needy woman, like it's hard to please her, that's why he could break up in the beginning because of it.

If both partners are fairly mature, they could work it out and accept each other differences. It is possible to live happy even if partners are very different or even complete opposites.

It's more important that you care

If your girlfriend is too needy, maybe she feels insecure and she wants to know that you care. Tell her something nice, give her a compliment, tell her you think about her, tell her you need her or love her and she will feel much better.

The more secure you make your girlfriend feel, the more space she will give you. Women want reassurance in the form of talking, attention, affection. The more you show her you care for her, the less needy she will feel.

It's actually good if a woman feels needy and wants to connect with you, you don't have to guess whether she likes you or not, because it's obvious, if she needs you, she likes you!

What to do with being needy

If you really care about your girlfriend, let her enjoy being needy as much as she wants to, what do you have to loose, really? If you don't care about your girlfriend, then maybe you need to start looking for someone who you desire more, for who you would be willing to sacrifice.

Nobody is perfect. If you find someone you love, you won't mind to sacrifice some of your time to be with another person. Being needy is not as scary as some men think. Needy woman is a woman in love.

I'm sure you could figure out some common ground between both of you. Maybe she would give you a little more space and you would give just a little more attention and affection. It can work for both of you.

No couple is perfect. As long as both partners are trying, marriage or relationship can be very happy for both of them. Find something positive in this situation, look at the neediness as a good sign, not something bad, and it will improve things for both of you. Also forgive and try to understand each other.