Why do people break up

People break up when they want something better. When they aren't happy in their current situation and they view something better ahead for them. If they think they would be better off apart, then they will break up.

Everyone is trying to make the best decision to be happy, to feel good and receive positive rewards in life. People avoid negative consequences as much as they can. So, having to break up is the best choice toward happiness in their mind.

No one breaks up for no reason. People have to beleive that there is a reason. It doesn't really matter what a reason is, as long as it makes him/her to beleive it will be better.

So many people live in a lot worse situations but consider themselves very happy, so it's pretty much depends on the belief. Belief that breaking up is more important and leads to future happiness or pleasure.

Breaking up

Usually one of the partner decides it's better to break up for whatever reason. Maybe he met someone new, or maybe he wants something different than you can offer, or maybe he just wants to be alone and doesn't want any relationship.

What could be a reason for break up? It could be any reason. As long as a person believes he isn't happy, it won't matter what a reason is.

Many people not are able to explain what the real reason that makes them unhappy, so they come up with "being incompatible". Trust me, even the most incompatible people can be very happy with each other if they beleive they are happy together.

So, no interest in finding happiness in current relationship is the main reason. Very often people can't even explain why a relationship is not important to them anymore.

More about break up in relationships

People do what they want. So, if they think they want to break, then they do it. Apparently, one of them or both of them don't have their needs met. People could be aware about their needs and what they want, but they also can have subconscious needs, so they don't always realize why they aren't happy.

The more needs unmet the greater chance of a break up. If a person wants affection and love in certain way but doesn't get any, it can lead to break up. Or maybe he/she wants affection from other person and it's not you. Maybe he/she wants affection from someone they consider to be important but it isn't you, it could lead to a break up too.

Relationships are two way street. Both partners need to be happy for it to work. One sided relationships can't survive for too long, because no matter how nice you are or can be, it won't make your partner happy. Your partner only knows what makes him happy and if it isn't you, then you can't do anything about it.

Break ups are very common and a part of many new relationships. If relationship wasn't important to you from the beginning to the end, you wouldn't get upset about break up as much. We only get upset about things that are important and really matter to us.