Why are men dominant

Men are dominant because it's all what they know. They were raised and encouraged to behave a certain way.

In reality, all of us have desire for control, desire to meet all or most of our needs. Some people were taught to be dominant to get what they want, while others were taught that being nice will get you what you want.

So, many of us have dominant and submissive qualities, and we stick to those qualities that work best for us.

Men were encouraged by parents, by movies they should be bigger, stronger and etc. If a man doesn't think he is dominant enough he could question his masculinity.

Sometimes, it could be only sexual preference though. For some men it's just a fantasy they are trying to fulfill and chase. It's all in the mind.

More about men

If you met a very dominant man, more likely his life experience made him the way he is. Sometimes physical characteristics influence man. Some men are naturally more aggressive than others.

There are lots of reasons why men are the way they are. Mostly it's a mind set, they think this is how men suppose to be and act. If they were encouraged being nice as much as women are, without considered of being weak, more men would have more gentle approach.

Apparently for a particular man, being aggressive is what makes him feel masculine and strong. Everyone wants to be the best, appreciated and valued. So, he will do, what is in his mind will make him happy, bring him respect of others, love and appreciation.

Many women say they love such type of men and, of course, men are trying to please women by being who they want them to be.

About rude men

What about rude men? Being rude is much more disturbing than just being dominant.

Rude men apparently have problems with communication or socialization. Communication is the most troubled part of many relationships. Many people don't know how to have a normal healthy relationship if they weren't treated nicely.

The more love a person gets, the more likely he/she will be nicer to others. If a person was treated badly he will try to defend himself any chance he gets, so could come across as a rude person.

Rude men can come across as very dominant sometimes because they seem as they don't care or don't need anyone's appreciation. Some men can be very emotionally underdeveloped and you can't really blame them if they had a very rough life.

But being rude won't bring more pleasure in life as someone thinks. Rude men do get rejected a lot, and then they rejected and hurt others easily too.