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Which is better being married or single

Which is better being married or single

Being single is better only until you meet someone right for you. If you don't meet a Mr/Mrs Right, then of course, being single would be better. If you meet someone who doesn't want a committement, all it means that he/she hasn't found a right person. When someone meets a right person, or they find what they really want, they forget about their joy of being single and aren't affraid to become committed.

People are getting married to improve their life, not to make it worse. If you think your life would be better if you get married, of course you would want to get married. Not everybody wants to be married. Different people have different needs. Highly social people would enjoy marriage more than private and self-involved person. Some marry young, others marry later. Many men wait for marriage much longer than women do, only because they see benefit of marriage differently.

Highly depended, social people would enjoy being married earlier, whereas independent men or women would enjoy stay single longer.

Getting married

Enjoy your single life while you can, being single can be a good thing too. Life is less complicated when you are single. No one to worry about, everything is more simple. Married life can be full of challenges and unpredictability. I am a married woman and I liked being single and like marriage too. It's what you want at certain point of you life.

Getting married or staying single can be a choice of your desire. People who haven't met a right person yet, or too affraid of commitement often prefer to stay in a long term relationship. But if you are in love with someone, if you never want to lose another person

Single life vs Marriage

When you are single, you don't have anyone to blame, you own all your decisions, you have your freedom. When you are married, you have to deal with power struggle in a relationship, every day becomes a usual day, excitement will fade and reality will set in. If you set in with the right person, you will enjoy marriage. If you find someone who meets most of your important needs you will be very happy in marriage.

But if you crave for attention, sexual excitement, then maybe staying single would be more important for you.

I think more men than women prefer to be single. Maybe because men focus on work more than social connections. Women feel more often validated through meaningful relationships and women love to "marry up" and women are better at finding a potential mate since a lot of men are affraid of rejection. Whether you are a man or a woman, think about you life now and if you think your life will improve after marriage, then it's o'kay to get married.