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If a girl rejects you, you need to back off. Yes, you need to listen to her feelings and not yours. It could be hard to understand how she could reject a guy who wants everything the best for her, treats her nicely and would do anything for her.

It doesn't matter how you feel about her, it only matters how she feels about you. She could be attracted to you which could make you even more confused, but if she doesn't plan to see you, if she doesn't see you in her future, if she rejects all your nice attempts to please her, then you have to let her go.

You maybe still have a hope to change her mind, to show her how great and interesting you are, but it only counts what she feels toward you. If she doesn't do anything to be with you, if she rejects you, then all your nice attempts will be left unappreciated.

What to do if she rejects you

You maybe hope that she is a nice girl and will be kind to you, but no, she will not be nice to you no matter how hard you try, that's why you back off or just let her go.

All your nice attempts she will only perceive as being needy, clingy and annoying. Everything that you share and try impress her, she will perceive annoying and will get mad at you.

It's hard to imagine that sincere and nice attempts on your part, your affection will be perceived only as cruelty to her. She might accuse you of stalking her, being clingy and annoying. So, give up a hope that nice things will change her mind, if she doesn't want you, anything that you are doing will upset her.

Know what she wants

It only matters what she wants and how she feels about you. Anything that you do is only selfish attempts on your part in hopes that she will be kind and see you the way that you see her.

It may feel good to pursue her but you have no idea that she cares only how she feels. If she doesn't have her heart for you, if she doesn't seek your attention, if she rejects all your attempts to hangout and all your gifts, it will only make her feel guilty and she will avoid you even more.

Women care if they feel good. Don't try too hard with her. You always want to go for women who try as hard to be with you. You want only women in your life who can appreciate and show love too. If you keep pursuing girl who keeps rejecting you, she will do it again and again until she gets rid of you forever.

So, give up on being selfish, give up on your own needs to have her yours, and watch if SHE at least wants you the way you want her.