How to turn a friend into a girlfriend

First of all, your since you are friends with your girl for quite a while, she probably has some idea if she likes you or could like you as a friend. So, all you need is to find out if she likes you in a romantic way too as you like her.

How would you do that?

Try to touch her and see how she reacts to it. If she likes you more than just friend she would love your touch and she would love to touch you too. But more sure way to find out is to kiss her. Sometimes women have a different degree of how much she is attracted to someone. If she is attracted to you and loves to kiss you or would love to kiss you and touch you, then you can be very certain it's possible to be with her more than just friends.

If she doesn't like your touch at all and avoids it at all costs, don't even proceed to kissing.

Friend as a girlfriend

If she likes you touch, then try to kiss her. Some women like to touch but wouldn't be attracted enough to kiss you, so kissing test is very important in your case.

Another problem could arise, if she likes to touch you and likes to kiss you but she has a different plan for her life and she doesn't see you there. She could like you very much sexually but she doesn't see you as her future husband/boyfriend.

Finding out whether she is attracted to you sexually or not is a first step, but then you need to find out if she can see you as her boyfriend/husband. Maybe she is attracted to men with higher social status, money and power would be the reason for her to keep distance.

More tips to turn your friend into a girlfriend

If she is your friend and she likes you more than friend, she would do something to hint you about it. Otherwise, you probably like her more than she likes you.

If you really want to make her your girlfriend, you have to take a risk and initiate the touching, kissing to find out her attraction for you. If she doesn't return your efforts, it's better to give up and back off, because no matter what you do and how nice you are she won't appreciate it in the same manner as you would appreciate it.

You can try to be affectionate and you can try to make her your girlfriend, but if she doesn't need you as a boyfriend, there is not much that you can do. You can try to give her a chance become your girlfriend, but you can't force people to give you what you want. Unfortunately each of us has a free will and other people's desires don't always correlate with out needs and wants. So, try, attempt it and be proud for risking to find out, since it could lead to something better for both of you.