Readers question:

Hi Girl, I'm a married man and my wife is so angry all the time. Sometimes I don't even know how to keep her happy anymore. Do you have any advice for me how to make my angry wife happy again?

Tall Girl answer:

If you have an angry wife it can be frustrating and challenging to you. We all want to have great loving relationships and anger can be an issue for many couples.

Understand her pain

If your wife suffers from anger, she is a person that is in a great pain. When she feels pain she hurts others too because she wants you to know how she really feels. Yes, angry wives can be very abusive. But before you jugde her and blame her, notice how much she suffers from her own anger.

Does she cry often?

Many women express anger through crying. Sometimes people think crying is a weakness but for many women it's an easier release than to go and beat someone or crush and breaking things. That's why many angry women are crying as a way to release strong emotions. She may cry very loud or quietly, some women prefer never cry in front of anyone but only when they are a lone. If your wife cries often it may show she has some anger problems.

Next Step

After you came to understanding that your wife is hurting herself first when she is angry, it would be easier for you to deal with her.

Learn about her values. Some men have a set core of values that she will never change for anyone. If you force her to change her important moral values she could feel a lot of anger and resentment towards you. Accept her core values and respect it. She will love you even more for that. Don't try to force her to do anything she doesn't believe in.

Show her love

If you are her husband or boyfriend you are the most important person in her life. You are also, the person that can make her the most happy.

Tell her you understand how she feels and rephrase her words, so she would feel heard by you. Be compassionate toward her even is she tries to blame you.

If you noticed she calmed down a little, you can give her a hug and tell her you love her and care about her. Tell her you understand her pain and suffering she goes through.

If your angry wife is passive aggressive it can be frustrating too. Don't get into defense but tell her you understand what she is trying to tell you. Some women go on and on about certain issue when they don't feel a man really understands her. She her as much as you can that you understand her how she feels and try not to get angry at her for needing such reassurance from you.

Remember that communication is the key to a happy marriage and wonderful relationship. Try to meet all your wife's needs through communication.