How to make my wife want me

How to make my wife want me is your question now. Why doesn't she want you? Can you make her want you? To be honest, you can't really force someone to like you, or need you but you can try, experiment and maybe something will work out. Does she want the change too? Does she want to want you again too? Or is it just your wish?

If your wife doesn't know why she feels the way she feels, but she is open to do something about it, it's good. If she is willing to please you and make changes to make you happy, it's till possible to bring love into your life.

If you are feeling rejected and you are the only one who tries hard, it can be much harder and even devastating. Only she can decide it for herself what is important to her now. If you can convince her or if she can convince herself that you are important to you, she will want you.

How much can you trust?

Don't trust anyone. Yes, we all want to trust and rely on somebody but you can't. People follow and do things depending how they feel and if she wants to reject you, she will. You can't trust her especially if she rejected you before, she will reject you again you. If she left you before, she will try to leave you again. It's her way of coping with stress and problems.

Do the best you can, accept any consequences and try.

One of the tricks to make you want back, is to change yourself, but do you want it? What if you change yourself and you'll feel even more miserable? For example, maybe your wife is a very distant person, and to make her want you, you need to distant yourself, deny your needs. It could make her want you but she might never want you as much as you want her, and you would suffer from being distant anyway. Is it worth it?

If you are willing try anything you can, ask her what she wants.

The worst way of dealing with problems is never talk about them and just give up.

Make your wife to want you

You need to be happy too. If you do anything you can for your wife but you deny your own happiness is it worth it? It might not be even worth it at the end. But if you are willing, go and try to win her back. In many relationships one partner wants more, or is more tolerant, if you can emotionally afford it, go for it...

Also, make sure she is honest with you. If she likes somebody else, it can make it very difficult for you.

If your wife wants to want you again and is willing, ask her what she wants from you. She might say she wants you to dress nicer, smell nicer, try impress her, or act as a challenge once in a while. Women love to play. Don't be too serious all the time. She wants to have fun. Do something fun with her, do something she likes. If she wants you to act as a bad guy, act as a bad guy, surprise her sometimes with being bad. Once you learn trust one another, make sure she knows that you care and you don't mean to hurt her.

Find out her "currency" - something that is important to her. What does she want or what does she value? Once you can give her what she needs or wants, she'll be much nicer, she will need you and she will want you. You probably know her better than anybody now, find out what she needs and give it to her. If she is bored, excite her, if she wants challenge, give it to her, if she wants a bad boy, act like that for her. But if she is not willing even to try there is nothing that you can do.