How to make him want you back

Before you decide you want him back, ask yourself such question "What do you want him for?". He definitely is not going be a good relationship material, if he broke off once, he will do it again and again. Are you ready for the future break up, it's easier to break up now, then it would be later.

If you don't care about your hurt feelings down the road and all you want is to see him and be with him, then sure, try to make him want you back.

Look if it's beginning of the relationship, then it would be easier. At the beginning of the relationship both partners aren't sure what they want from each other, so there is some chance for it to grow into something better. If you were in a long term relationship and experienced break up it would be more serious and I wouldn't advice to take him back.

If you know for sure that's what you want, then sure, try to make him want you back because why not? If you feel you have nothing to loose by wanting him back, then try.

Why take him back

Some people wonder why anyone would bother to pursue a relationship after a break up. The point is that different people have different wants and what one person wants won't make much sense to another person. Everyone is different. It's a lot less powerful position to be in by wanting someone back, but it's fun for you and this is what you want to experience then why not. It isn't the best and isn't the healthiest way but if someone wants it then it's ok.

Where to start

Try to understand his reason for a break up. Is it his lack of interest? Are your values so different? Does he have different needs than you have?

Then give him some space and take it slow. Men are affraid to be pressured or disappointing someone. Men avoid conflict too. Rely on your best judgment but don't get frustrated about anything. Learn to accept things in life. In the beginning of the relationship pursuing could seem as a compliment but in a serious relationship everything would be more at stake.

More tips

Try to remember what attracted him to you in the beginning. Give him some space and see where it goes. If he really wants to leave, let him leave. Maybe he will miss you and come back, or he might never come back. You can't control the other person, so maybe the biggest gift you can give him is what he really wants (to leave).

Try everything you can, listen to your feelings and try to make him happy. Everyone wants to feel good in a relationship. Don't get angry at yourself or him, be mature whatever you do.

Let go of the outcome and enjoy relationship (or lack of it) in present moment. Try to be happy, enjoy life and your emotional state could attract him back to you. Be around him, let him see that you are not going to control him, that you are happy whether he is in your life or isn't.