How to know if a girl wants to kiss you

Your girl probably doesn't know if she wants to be kissed or not yet. If you want to know if she wants you to kiss her, you need to know if she is attracted to you or not. If she is attracted to you, she will definitely would want to kiss you too.

Most girls don't usually think "Oh, I want to kiss that guy", she is more likely to think "Oh, he is so cute, I want him to notice me, I want his complements and affection, I want him to touch me."

So, kissing is usually almost the last thing on her mind right now. Guys usually take more active role into seducing a woman. So, to know whether she would like you to kiss her you or not, see if she wants to touch you.

If she wants to touch you, if she likes to touch you, she will want to kiss you too.

Women don't want to touch a guy if she isn't attracted to him. If she touched you on purpose, it's a huge sign.

More signs if she wants to kiss you

It could take a longer time for a girl to know if she wants to kiss you or not. Guys can decide much faster, but a girl needs a longer time to know if she is really attracted to you or not.

Another thing you need to look at how young she is and how experienced or inexperienced she is. If she was never kissed or touched before, she probably wouldn't want to kiss or touch you, she just would want your attention. If she was very sexual before, if someone made out with her before she would be more comfortable about it then.

Girls who didn't date much before you, would be very standoffish from your point of view. It would be really hard to guess whether she wants a kiss or not. What should you do then?

Take it slow. Give her time to decide if she is attracted to you.

Take action and you touch her, see if she avoids your touch or not. What I mean by touch? You can touch her hand, give her a hug, just do something to reduce distance between you both. If she feels comfortable you touch her hand, hug her and etc., she might start to touch you too then.

More about kissing

If your girl doesn't feel happy about you touching her anyhow, then take step back. She might not like you the way you like her. Give her plenty of time to realize if she wants to kiss you.

Be patient with her. It takes women a lot longer to know if they want a kiss or not. Some girls actually prefer to be kissed on her body, neck, shoulders, arms, but not so much on lips. It's just personal preference.

If your girl is very affectionate otherwise but doesn't want to kiss on lips, she might still like you a lot, but she maybe never learned to enjoy deep and sensual mouth to mouth kissing yet.

Maybe you are the first person to teach her the pleasure of kissing.

Look for general clues if overall she shows you she likes you, if she smiles at you, laughs, touches you, then she does like you...she would want to kiss you too.