How to fall in love with someone

First of all, if you want to fall in love, you need to start meeting new people. The more people you'll meet the more likely you will meet someone who you will want to fall in love with.

People have different value list when they asses the other person. If you meet a person who matches most of your needs, desires in a partner, it will much easier to fall in love with. Go out, meet as many people as you can and you could find a potential partner.

Each of us has precise subconscious desire to meet all our needs that we formed based on our childhood and past experiences. Something that is important to you, maybe won't have the same meaning to the other person. Someone likes to spend a lot of time together, someone wants a rich partner, someone wants who can make them laugh and have a certain social status. The desires can be very complex, I only named a few common ones.

If you can't find someone to love, it could be because you are around wrong people or maybe you don't go out as much at all, or you go out to the wrong places.

How to play hard to get basics

If you want to fall in love with someone you need to meet someone who holds the same or higher value than you. People are attracted only to those who are perceived important and valuable in their eyes. If you will be honest with yourself, you will understand that something is important to you (example: education, social status, money, sense of humor, looks, dependability, religion, moral values).

People usually aren't attracted to someone who they don't respect or have low opinion about.

Once you decided what you like in your partner, go to those places, meet people who have characteristics that you are attracted to. Have hope and don't give up, enjoy the experience of dating, meeting new people even if it will take awhile for you to find what you are looking for.

Most people give up too soon. This is the biggest mistake that you can make. Don't give up no matter what, have faith, and know that you really want it. Sometimes people don't really know what they want, but since you found this article and still reading it, most likely you are more determined than most people. Go and try again.

If you try hard enough and still can't find someone that makes you happy, maybe you have a very unique list to what you want from people. Be open minded, don't be too harsh on yourself and others. Maybe you have trust issues or maybe you are attracted to people who aren't social and are hard to meet them. Be patient and keep trying. If you never try you would regret even more and meanwhile enjoy your experience.