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You can be happy being single. It's not being single that upsets you but your mind set through which you perceive the world. If your deepest desire is to get married, sure, pursue it but meanwhile enjoy being single. People want what they can't have. Just imagine, what if you get married, it will be forever and you won't have your freedom, you won't be able to do what you want, your husband/wife won't always want to please you as you hoped, your life won't seem as perfect as you imagined it before. There are many benefits of being single. Look, you can meet and date different people. You can be friends with both, males and females. Once you get married, you might even forget what's dating is like, and you probably will stick only to friends of your own gender. Being single is fun Being single is fun. You can go different places without explaining or asking permission, you can break up with anyone you don't like or who doesn't please you. You can move on to a new and exciting potential partner. In the beginning of the relationships people are trying to impress each other, they are trying to please each other much harder than if a person was 10 years married. Dating can be very exciting, so enjoy it! What is about marriage that you miss so much? You still can be in relationships even if you are single. You still can enjoy fun relationships if you are single. If you crave commitment, reliability and support, you can get it from friends and family. If you only crave it from your lover, then you are more likely trying to heal your past wounds. You want to feel loved and accepted being in marriage. Enjoy your life now It's o'kay to dream and fantasize about marriage, but don't get obsessed over it. What if you got married and didn't really enjoy it after all? So many people are getting married and they think that their initial attraction will rest forever, but then reality sets in and being married doesn't look as exciting anymore as it seemed before. Just because it's your heart desire now, it doesn't mean it will make you happy once you get there. Sure, you might enjoy the wedding day and first couple years, but then you'll realize it's forever and it limits so much of your freedom, you would need to please your husband/wife and etc. Being single or being married is equally good. Marriage has it's benefits of love and security, while single life gives you benefits of freedom, free choice and new exciting experiences. As a married person myself, I really miss dating sometimes. Dating is fun, enjoy it while you can. It might not last forever. Get support from your friends and family and it will make you happier of being single. |
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