Do women like to be pursued ?

Women love to be pursued, of course, why not? As a woman myself, I love to be pursued. There is a difference between being pursued or being stalked. Although, I never really was stalked badly enough. So, yes, women do love to be pursued.

In fact, a lot of women dream about being pursued. So many women get frustrated because guys aren't straightforward enough and aren't pursuing them hard enough. Every woman has her own opinion about how much she wants to be pursued, but of course, initial pursuing is very flattering.

Women like to be pursued and even hope to be pursued. Women want to know that they are desirable, attractive and liked by men. It gives women more power and feel beautiful and irresistible. Being a beautiful woman is a big plus.

Pursue carefully

You need to be sure she is at least interested in you before you begin pursuing her. Every woman has different opinion about how much she would like to be pursued by a guy. Some women want very persistent men and will do anything to distance herself from you. Others, will be easygoing until they know whether they are interested or not. A woman can loose interest any time in the beginning of the relationship, so your goal is to find out what she really needs and give it to her.

Maybe she is looking for a husband, or boyfriend, or one night stand, you never know, most women are interested in long term relationships (such as marriage) with a wonderful man. If your and her needs will be the same it will be easier to sustain a relationship. Pursuing could be in the initial stage until it progresses into something more. What do you consider is pursuing? Can you emotionally afford it? Women who like to be pursued could be emotionally challenging for you and be high maintenance. They like to have upper hand in everything. They want to have power in the relationship.

Sometimes quite dominant and controlling men have difficulties with women. Maybe because it's hard for them to give up control or maybe because they only want certain women who are a challenge. Whatever your reason is, remember that women love to have power in a relationship, women feel safe if they have the upper hand. Just because a woman is sweet and nice it doesn't mean she didn't wrap you around your finger. So, be careful, just because you are doing all the pursuing, it doesn't mean that you have any more power in the relationship because of it. Listen how you feel and what you want. If you can afford to get hurt and rejected at the end, then yes, go and pursue her, why not?

But if you were hurt before and you would be devastated then rethink about it. Women do love to be pursued to a certain extend. Don't show up at her door step though! Be always polite and considered. Ask her questions and be gentle with her. Some women are affraid of men in general, because some men are stronger and more aggressive, so be gentle with her. If a woman can't trust you or doesn't feel safe with you, she will do anything to avoid you. So, the main rule, keep her feel safe with you.