Why nice guys finish last - why girls want bad boys

Why nice guys finish last. It often does seem like nice guys finish last, but in reality, what is nice is actually very relative. It's so relative that what is nice seem to you would look pretty bad to another person. Do you need to be a nice guy to win a girl? Honestly, you don't have to worry about being nice at all.

Just be yourself and give as much as you are willing to give, give only as much as you are happy to give to another person.

Sometimes men get upset at the advice "Just be yourself" because you can't get what you want by just being yourself.

The fact that you have to be yourself to be true to yourself comes from "What you feel truly loved if someone loved you only for being nice"?

Many of us want to be loved for who we are. That's why you have to raise your standards and find someone who truly loves you for who you are. You can't blame women for not loving because you can't make someone to truly love you. If someone will love you, they will love you no matter what, they will love you if you are nice or if you are bad.

If you haven't met someone to love you, then it just not meant to be in your life yet. Don't be angry at women for not loving you or treating you they way you want to be loved and treated.

If you truly want to be happy, all you have to do, is to try to meet as many women as possible and find a woman who loves you and accepts you the way you are. And if you are in love, you would try to be the best you can be for her.

Everyone has a set of beliefs, what you need to do to be happy is to stick to your most core beliefs and pursue what is important to you. If someone loved you only because you are nice or only because you are rich or only because you are famous, you wouldn't appreciate it anyway.

So, don't worry whether women perceive you nice or not, just be a person you want to be and don't be afraid to let people know that you are great the way you are.

Be a nice guy you want to be or be a bad guy you want to be, just stick to something that makes you happy. Taker care of your priorities, of your needs and your believes and pursue something you truly believe in. Don't listen to everybody else, but listen to your personal truth. What is important to you can be different to someone else.

My main point is that it doesn't matter if you are a nice guy or bad guy, it only matters if you meet someone who truly loves you for who you are.

We can all be nice and bad at times, all you need to find someone who truly loves you even if you are bad and who truly loves you even if you are nice as well.