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Why girls like bad guys? It's a very simple question with a very complicated answer. It's not so much that women don't like nice guys, it's more about who gives more love in a relationship. A person who gives more love in a relationship will be perceived as "nice" and also will feel more love toward the other. A nice guys loves more, that's why it seems as women don't like nice guys but seems like they like bad guys. It's all about attraction and who gives more love in this relationship. If you truly want to feel loved and if you really want to meet a woman who loves you, try to find a woman who gives more, then you wouldn't look "too nice" for her. A nice guy usually gives more of his time, more of his love to his girlfriend. It doesn't matter if other guys give more or less, but it matters that he gives more to his girlfriend than he receives from her. If he pursues her too hard she does not like him in the same way. That's why it seems that women don't like nice guys but want bad guys. When it's a woman who tries harder, who gives more and who loves harder, then she considers her guy a bad guy, that's why it seems that women don't like nice guys. Women do want a nice guy, but women also want to feel in love too. The person who gives more of emotions and effort usually will love more too. That's why if you don't want to be perceived as a nice guy, try to find a woman who will need you more than you need her. Love and feelings are very important. It's o'kay to be a nice guy, it is good to be a nice guy, it's just sometimes a matter of who is nicer? It's a power struggle in a relationship and someone who thinks gives more and someone who tries harder will feel more love, will be more in love. So, can a relationship ever work out? Yes it can, but it's more about love and commitment and less about attraction. Too many people think that attraction is love or love is attraction but it is wrong. Love is a pure kindness it can exist with attraction or not. If you truly want to find love, try to find someone who has faith in love similar to yours. The main conclusion is that "being a nice guy" is very relative. You would be perceived as a great catch to one person and you would be perceived as a bad guy by another person. So, don't believe what women tell you "that women don't like nice guys" women do like nice guys, it's just very different what they think "nice" really means. For most women when they say they want a nice guy, all they mean that they want a guy who she will love and care most of all. She wants to be in love head over heals and someone who gives more will feel deeply in love. She wants to be a willing giver, that's why she wants to find a nice guy for who she will be willing to give all her love and all her true passionate emotions. |
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