Staying in marriage for kids - staying married for children

Should you stay or should you go for the sake of your kids? Here is a simple solution: if your kids don't know that you are unhappy in marriage if you and your partner are good parents and don't disrespect each other in front of children, then yes, you should stay in marriage for kids.

If you and your partner both can pretend to be happy and if the only problem is that your passion died or wore off, then yes, you should stay for the children.

Only if your partner is abusive and disrespectful, hurts children and you, abusive emotionally or physically then it's better leave such marriage. But if you still can treat each other nice and be best friends to each other, then it's good to stay in marriage. If you and your husband can't even be very friendly but argue a lot and disrespectful then you both should leave each other.

Why do I make such a strong argument for parents to stay together even if passion wore off and if sexual feelings aren't there anymore? Because if your husband is a good father now, he won't be such a goof father once he leaves. If you stay together you children will be happy to see their father almost every day but if he leaves, no matter how good he is, he probably will want to see them about once a year, or hopefully a few more times.

Men usually lose feelings of keeping in touch once they leave the house. So, if your husband is a good father and the only problem you have is lack of passion or passionate love, it's better to stay together for the sake of kids.

If your child is happy and thinks you are happy parents, the child would be very hurt if you leave. Sometimes children don't know that their parents are unhappy with each other. But if your child knows that you are suffering then it's better to divorce because your suffering will make a child to suffer too. If you can't hide your feelings of hurt and pain and suffering, then it's better to divorce. If a child knows all your pain and abuse then it's better to divorce in such case.

Always make sure that divorce is the last option and try anything you to make your marriage happy for everyone. Talk to your child and see if your child enjoys the presence of your spouse. If you are a man and you want to leave an unhappy marriage, most men underestimate kids feelings, so try to stay if you can, try to be happy in your current marriage, try to revive the lost love and have faith in your spouse and happy marriage.