How to get a man to want you, to need you

So, if you really want to get a man to want you, you would have to risk to lose your relationship, you would have to become withdrawn and emotionally less invested. Only then a man will have a chance to want you and chase, but he also could simply leave you.

It's very hard to let go of the relationship in such situation. Very often one partner is more emotionally invested in a relationship, one partner loves more than the other and gives more than the other, so if you want to get a man to want you, you would have switch your roles and it could lead you to lose any relationship that you had.

If you want to get a man to want you and to like you and to chase, you have to become less giving, less emotionally invested and less available for him. Pulling away from him could either increase his attraction to you or dissolve and break relationship altogether.

If you want a man to want you, it means he holds more power in your relationship right now, and he is stronger because he is less interested. If you can't make yourself feel less interested, at least you will have to act less interested. Don't give too much time, too much of your affection too soon.

All your affection and hard work to win his love will be only perceive as neediness and clinginess and he will want to reject you and get rid of you forever. So, you just have to back off even if it meas to lose him, if you back of and he comes back to you, and chase you, then it was meant to you.

If you want to get a man to want you, it means that you need to figure out how you can have more power in a relationship than your partner, you have to figure out how to become more distant around him, so you would have a lot of control of him, and he will become the needy one. Sometimes, due to personalities differences, you could be attracted to emotionally unavailable men, who will never give you what you want, who will never chase and will never need you as you want them to need you and want you.

Meanwhile, don't get upset if you are the needy one, enjoy your position of lack of power, because it creates very strong emotions in you toward your partner.