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Yes, someone can love you and cheat on you. Not all people have good morals and intelligence, but they can love. Yes, love is possible, even people who lack morals and intelligence can love too. So, look at your partner, he might feel some love, but he needs growing up to do in some other areas of his or her character too. Sometimes the answer to your questions is not whether your partner loves you or not, but whether you are happy or not. If your partner tells you he loves you but you don't feel his love, if you feel unhappy then it doesn't matter whether your partner loves you or not. Do you want to know why so many men want to have important jobs and to be rich? Because they know they will get respect and attention from people no matter if they are loved or not. For example, some men want the attention and respect and it makes them feel loved. Whereas if someone kept telling them they love him but never gave any respect or attention, the he wouldn't feel so loved. It's just examples. Sometimes it doesn't really matter if someone loves you or not, but the question is do you feel loved? If you don't feel loved, then no matter how much your partner loves you, you still wouldn't be very happy. So, yes, your partner probably loves you even if he/she cheats on you, but is it all you want from a relationship, just love? Sometimes love just isn't enough for it to work out. Look at your life today and decide what you want. What love means to you? Your partner definitely is capable of loving you and cheating on you, depending on his needs, traumas from childhood and personal characteristics that could be predisposition to cheating. But he could still feel love for you even if cheats on you. Besides just love, you need a commitment from your partner, you need good moral values, good trust and reliability. Love is good, but sometimes love isn't enough. Try to build your relationship on more factors than just love. You have to teach each other how to treat each other. You have to tell your partner what love actually means to you. Different people feel love differently. Some need words of affirmations, other gifts, third time and money. So, talk to each other, but one thing you have to remember, that if someone loves you and cheats on you they simply lack morals and intelligence or they were treated this way, that's why they learned it to be normal or acceptable. |
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